Kind, clear words for the moments that tend to catch you off guard this season.
The holidays can pull us right back into old roles: the peacekeeper, the fixer, the one who says yes and pays for it later. These five short scripts give you something to say when you're caught off guard, so you don't have to come up with the right words on the spot.
Inside, you'll find simple language for:
I'm Cristen Smith, a licensed trauma-informed therapist. I help people understand the patterns they learned to survive, and find steadier ways to show up for themselves and the people they love.